Why do Aquarians take so long to commit?

Why do Aquarians take so long to commit?
I’ll just be honest. We had sex since April and at first it was just sex. I kept getting frustrated with him because I felt like I was getting used and it wasn’t until freakin August that he even admitted he liked me and was thinking about something serious with me.

It was until today that I was talking to his roommate that his roommate told me that apparently he set up something special on Valentine’s day for me. An his roommate just kept telling me not to worry.

But I kinda am because he’s so damn hard to read!!! Also I’m kinda used to being in a relationship by now.

Is this normal??
Advice please

Answer by Steph101
Yes it’s normal and honestly you should be thankful he’s an Aquarius because they are serious when it comes to matters of the heart and are really romantic. Just be patient it will be worth it I promise.

Answer by GibBas
Because they value their independence and freedom so much that they simply have to be sure that what they’re taking on is worth it.

Answer by Smile =D
my aquarius boyfriend told me he liked me the 2nd week we were friends lol
right now we still together 4 years lol and he never was hard to read and hes really affectionate nd stuff
i am guessing because he has a scorpio moon :p
anyways yeah mines didnt take long to commit and the only reason why were not married yet is cuz we still in college haha

Answer by SaggiMC
First you need to understand that you are NOT the sum total of your sun sign!
newspaper and magazine astrology is nothing related to the proper astrology that Astrologers use, this is just a pinch of salt entertainment sort. What they do is put each sun sign conjunct the Ascendant and read where the 10 planets fall in any one of the 12 houses. So when you have got your free chart from astro.com you will know your Ascendant sign, then if you want use this type of recreational fun, then you would look up your Ascendant sign to stand any kind of chance of having those planets in the right houses for you…. These were invented for commercial reasons… If you cannot get past this idea of JUST sun signs, you will always stay a novice/astro virgin. Perhaps if you learn some of the basics in astrology this will help with your future questions

Now Aquarius along with aries and saggi all have issues to do with freedom and independence within relationships. So if someone is overly emotional or has lot of water in their charts, probably be too emotional. What aquarius look for is friendship, mental stimulation and good communications. But as mercury/communications can only be upto one sign away from sun and venus can only be upto two signs away. so if he has these two in cappi, that could make him ambitious a workaholic and tight with money. If he has these two in pisces, that could add moodiness, restlessness and indecisiveness. So to answer your question, yes it can take a while before aquarius commits….

Please remember synastry (comparing two charts) does NOT work off SIGNS but mathematical aspects one chart makes to another. What attracts you to another person is their ASCENDANT sign not Sun sign. This is the chemistry, lust and attraction factor. So if you want a detailed analysis please make the effort to get the correct charts and then PM the link to your new question. If you get your chart and find your Asc sign from astro.com then anyone’s sun sign that falls conjunct your Asc or in your first house is excellent as there would be so much in common. Also excellent if someone’s sun conjuncts your Descendant/marriage house. The angles are very sensitive in synastry.

How to approach Synastry


please read my thread above and do a little research, read my above thread and if you are still interested please make a new post WITH the correct charts. If you don’t have a correct TOB for the other person, just use 12noon, if you use TOB unknown then it won’t create a bi wheel….when copy/pasting link make sure you do *enter* after link. Do not make the mistake of copy/pasting from address bar as the links will disappear. Just remember your chart is a PICTURE.jpg not data.

Posting Natal Chart Data v Natal Chart Pictures?


Synastry aspects calculator


just remember to reduce the aspects and orb all to 3’ and angles 3’ Use this site *only* IF you are finding it too hard to follow my directions and posting the correct charts from astro.com you could use this instead, NOT in addition to. It doesn’t give ASC/MC aspects unfortunately, and these are THE most sensitive and important in synastry.

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Cancerian woman and Aquarius Guy? Can it work?
I’ve seen a lot of the online Astrology love match thingies and they all say no pretty much. And I know at the end of the day you can’t take that stuff too seriously but I was just wondering, is anyone knew otherwise… We’re doing btw, so it isn’t that type of question, just asking for fun… If it helps any my b-day is 6/26 and his is 2/11

Answer by twobybrace
i think it might not, but you could see what parts you two aren’t compatible in and make it work.

Answer by Linda
believe they are very good together he a keep that will love you

Answer by Angelina M
We have the same birthday!

Answer by polly

Cancer and Aquarius characteristics are quite different from each other but that doesn’t mean to say the relationship won’t work. In fact there is a lot you will respect about each other. Cancer is emotional and spiritual and cares about people. Aquarius is the most humanitarian sign of the zodiac. On the surface this relationship will be relaxed and easy-going. Underneath there are other psychological elements at play. For instance the Cancer will long for love and affection and is devoted to their family. Aquarius will tend to remain emotionally distant. For the relationship to work the couple must find a balance between Cancer’s strong need for devotion and a dedicated partner and Aquarians need to retain a degree of freedom in their relationships


Answer by TaShayla S
This match has basically no hopes of turning into real or long-term love. You two are complete opposites when it comes to what you need from relationships. You are a warm, friendly and open-minded person; he is cool and not very open to new people or experiences. You are highly emotional; he is highly intellectual. You get loud and cry when you fight; he just sneers and leaves the room. He is a detached person; you want to be connected to the world through emotion. This is a case of opposites colliding, in the worst way possible. A bad love match for you.

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